Sleep Naked

Nothing is better

ok... Sleeping naked with a partner

Nothing is better than that

Especially my partner

It's the feeling of the cool sheets, on my feet, back, hips

It's the pockets of air that get trapped between me and the universe

It's the same feeling I get when I swim, I am free, no restrictions

It's the same feeling I get in the water, kinda floating in a mass that is not solid.

It's the icing on the cake, that we call dream land...dream land.

It's the unlimited amount of skin, that can touch, unlimited amounts of skin.

Have you felt your lovers knees with your toes?

How about your lovers thighs with your wrists?

accidentally, in the middle of sleep.

Ever wake up in a sea of pillows and blankets, and don't know which way is up?




Found this online: Sleep Naked, do it
"Nude sleeping can be cured pain: Naked sleeping on the efficacy of treatment of diseases, high tension, especially in abdominal visceral tension in the nervous system easier to be eliminated, but also promote blood circulation, and chronic constipation, chronic diarrhea, as well as back pain, headaches and other diseases be given a greater degree of improvement. Meanwhile, the naked people who sleep on the insomnia will also have to appease a certain role.

Be able to sleep naked beauty: There is no isolation of the clothes, exposed skin can absorb more nutrients, promote metabolism, enhance the secretion of sebaceous glands and sweat glands, sebum excretion and favorable regeneration of the skin has a transparent feeling.

Nude sleeping protect private part: female genital humid all year round, if there is sufficient ventilation ventilation can reduce the risk of the possibility of gynecological diseases. Sleep not only makes people feel warm and comfortable, and even the common gynecological physiological menstrual pain, low back pain and has also been reduced, in the past due to cold hands and feet but could not sleep a long time for women to take nude sleep mode, the soon to fall asleep.

Enjoy the peace of sleeping nude: no clothes, bondage, the body's natural relaxation, blood flow, cold hands and feet to improve the situation of some people in tapping into deep sleep."

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Who is Quinn?

Quinn is...

Ultimately who I would be on a daily basis if I could handle it. She is the ultimate Aquarian, free spirit, no stress, no worries, free thinker, sexual deviant, ultimate fantasy, badass, intellegent, ready for anything, and looks good in leather kind of girl.

Quinn rides a motorcycle, and handles every situation by the balls. She spits fire, and has a serpent tongue. Quinn has firey hair and a tatttoo to match. She will mess you up, with out asking questions. Quinn has no regrets.

She speaks without worrying about being offensive, because the truth hurts. Quinn gambles and takes chances because she feels that without risk, there is no life. She thinks she is a lot tougher and bigger than she is, and often gets into fights she can't handle...but handles them anyway!

Nothing stops Quinn, if she wants something, she will get it. If she wants something done, it will happen. Quinn is a workaholic, she will work until her body gives out.

You can not define Quinn, she will make you question your own reality. She feels that pain is necessary to enlightenment, that people need to face their own insecurities and weaknesses in order to become stronger. Quinn looses a lot of friends this way.

Something I really like about Quinn is her attitude. She doesn't take no for an answer and has super high standards. You either meet her standards or get left behind.

Quinn has an insane sex drive, and thrives in dominance.

Quinn will do anything for a thrill. From dancing at strip clubs, to terrorizing cops, to mocking strangers. Often, she will go overboard. Born leader, fearless, and takes no bullshit. She has zero tolerance for weakness.

Quinn wants to be taken seriously.

Quinn has a lover, J.j. But he is a secret. Not many people can know about them, because Quinn believes that most people don't deserve to know something so sacred.

J.j. is (in the words of J.j.)
 JJ wears more black, JJ is loud. he likes to be seen. JJ isn't at all subtle. It's not that JJ isn't concerned with romanticism, he just likes to fuck, especially when he hasn't slept. 

and JJ doesn't sleep much.

JJ hurts, he suffers from self-image problems. JJ finds intimidation inspiring, it's how he responds to the other sides of him. 

it isn't that JJ doesn't get scared, because he does, it's that his fear becomes fuel to get louder and harder instead of softer and quieter. an important distinction to make is that while JJ isn't afraid to indulge his anger, he rarely does so in a destructive way, because JJ loves the night. he lives in the dark. it's his home. why would he destroy that?

JJ doesn't just live in the dark... he *believes in it.* 

JJ is acutely aware of his feelings of doubt, but you'll find that, despite the differences in his confidence, he rarely shakes it off or accepts it as the failing of other people or situations, but rather as a reflection of himself. It's very important to JJ that he appears sincere. 

He really wants to be understood.

If anyone fucks with JJ, Quinn will mess them up. <3

Accept Me

Defining yourself is the hardest thing

Finding someone who can accept you and the things you do

makes me feel like I have to be able to correctly define myself

make a "warning" label for myself

I can feel peoples pain, insecurity, wants, needs, etc.

But I feel my own?

Am I a flirt? maybe

Do I crave attention? Moderately

Do I need validation? Definitely

Do I need reassurance? Positively

Do I get these things from one source? absolutely not

I have a gift, and I use it

but understand, in the end

I am yours

I am yours

I am yours

they can't have me, but they still have a purpose.

retaliation

I don't believe in instant retaliation.

Not with matters of the heart. 

Anything that is said, or implied

Will most likely tear you apart.

Others are mirrors of ourselves

it's hard to accept, and hard to understand

until we can learn to be and let be

we will not be able to stand.... hand in hand

How can we stop hurting each other

can it really just be the peace within?

if we eliminate expectations 

a life of freedom will ultimately begin. 

But how do you love with out expecting love in return?

Romance is built, but is the magic number 2?

without love, would the world still turn?

without love, do i really know you?

defining the undefiable

you can't turn your back on this

but is this love reliable? 

only enchanted by a kiss

Maybe all of life is a phase

it's not your job to tell me

maybe I live in a haze

Just don't spoil my naivety 

If I retaliate, please understand

and know I hear you;

I'm not one to put my head in the sand

or ignore slander you spew 

If I could, I would take your hand

and guide you through. 

But for now, I'll stand by, and hurt                    Like you

                                                                           For you

                                                                           With you

                                                                          Because of you.

Volatile

I just want to turn the lights off in these Volatile times. 

http://thinkingwoman1.wordpress.com/2009/03/11/the-difference-between-volatile-and-abusive-relationships/

I have been in 2 volatile relationships. Even though those were not healthy(borderline abusive), a volatile relationship can be very healthy. The reason these relationships were so volatile, was because of my need to argue. Not that I "wanted" to argue, so much, as I just couldn't help it. 

I have become less "aggressive" since my last break up, and as a direct result of that, more involved in my own thoughts and life. Which gives me less time to worry about minor conflicts. I am liking it. It is much easier. 

I'm not saying I will never argue again, because there always has to be a balance. 

But next time I find myself in an argument... I'm going to seek the love out in it. 

where have I been?

pre-occupied

found this and realized I haven't blogged in a few days, So I am sharing this via blog.

http://indigoshakti.tumblr.com/post/34856250406/sexuality-reclaiming-the-erotic-spiritual-sex-beyond

Be Change

stumbled across this.

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as our eggshells crack and shatter, we open ourselves.....

http://www.wordriot.org/template.php?ID=238

"So I take mirrors and leave reflections. I allow the residents to reflect on their actions toward each other. I invade the predictability of someone else's life, simply because I can. Why not?"

source

just because time moves, doesn't mean we move with it

everything takes time. but you don't understand

why do you make me the source of your pain

or is it just that I am the receiver?

easy to lash out at, easy to blame

easy to love? means I'm easy to hate

I don't understand how you can believe

only what you are able to perceive

do you know how to listen? can you really feel anything?

or is it only pain that you identify with

the whipping boy of the world

your world

revolving around all of your insecure delusions

your pain is... painfull

your only way out? to bring me down

your one of the many, that only knows how to spit venom

and watch the world crumble from your poison

you have the ability to love, but it is soot covered

it has no shine

like a cheap piece of plastic

I never called it mine

I am not the source of your pain, wake up

please

I would not have spent so long trying to help you, work through everything with you

If I only intended on hurting you.

Have you lost your awareness?

You can not respect others, simply because you have no respect for yourself

YOU made yourself an underdog, it was your will, your wish

so you have no right to bitch about it

Stop pretending the entire world was made to be at war with you

it's disgusting to watch

because I realize now, that I have always been unable to help you

you simply can not see

I am your friend, but your ego is my enemy

how can i make you see the difference?



http://youtu.be/anJ8Knxoazc